Sunday, May 2, 2010
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ON TWO FREE LESSONS THAT MAKE
A. It is there to listen, what he confused? What rustles and rattles her ears?
What is it that he nailed to the ground?
B. As someone who once was everywhere in chains
To hear - ringing.
(THE "NOT FREE" F. Nietzsche)
PART ONE: OUR BIAS
How many times we happened to live a relationship that made us feel unhappy, insecure or frustrated? How many times have we
feel betrayed by a friend, a teacher or a lover? How many times
emotions such as fear, anger or resentment have undermined the roots of our peace and our emotional stability?
these are situations that we have covered all at least once in their life, and very often for some of us, this "time" can last for months or even years, becoming a personal hell from which it is difficult to get out and that, very often you know not even recognize, but merely suffer the consequences in terms of inner distress, feelings of anger, dissatisfaction, frustration and sadness.
But what's behind the feelings of fear, loneliness, frustration and anger that arise during the course of our interpersonal relationships? These are our basic beliefs: the result of constraints accumulated during childhood and young age and the way we reacted to them in an attempt to adapt to reality, thus structuring our personal bias "of good and evil" .
Within this polarized structure of the inner psychic contents and how the rating of emotional experiences, the asset is usually all that makes us feel nourished, cared for, content, loved, supported, happy, full, and what we MALE feel abandoned, frightened, lonely, helpless, incapable, inadequate, dissatisfied, frustrated and so on.
mode structure of the polarization is different from person to person and is strictly subjective, being linked to accidents such as the condition of family, social, physical and economic entity, this polarization, once strutturatasi and consolidated over the years due to processes operant conditioning, it becomes a sort of "navigator emotional", according to which every person categorizes experiences as good or bad and react to them accordingly.
For simplicity, from now on I will call this bias our "baby step backwards."
far so clear - you say - but then why the "baby step back" emerge in our intimate relationships (whether friendship, love, brotherhood, kinship or fellowship) taking possession of our common sense and lucidity of our making and our relationships difficult, tortuous and often a source of emotional pain and discomfort ?
Before answering this question I want to talk about the two great forces that guide us: the pleasure and fear.
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